Tuesday 23 August 2016

The Burden of Being a Kikuyu



"You should feel very lucky to have been born a Kikuyu!" This statement has been directed to me on many occasions by friends from other communities. I admit that I used to feel quite lucky belonging to the most populous tribe but not anymore. Now I just feel burdened. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate being a Kikuyu, it's just that I don't take it as some kind of entitlement to make me feel superior to people of other communities.

Ũthamaki ni Witũ
This is not Greek. It is just the Kikuyu way of saying, "The kingdom is ours". This of course refers to the
Presidency because Kenya is not a monarchy - yet. Occupancy to the house on the hill (State House) has given some of my kinsmen the impetus to Lord it over our brothers (and sisters) from other communities. Personally however, this 'ownership of the Kingdom' does not in any way make me feel more privileged than a person from a different tribe.

Public Service Jobs
An 'ethnic' audit was recently conducted in public universities across the country. It indicated that most of the workers particularly in institutions within central province were Kikuyus. This 'discovery' was hailed as a red flag. It was interesting to read people's comments. Many implied that Kikuyus had 'stolen' jobs meant for other Kenyans. They thought we should be content with the presidency and leave the smaller jobs to needier and therefore, more deserving people.

Business Acumen
There is a widespread belief that all people of Kikuyu origin are good in business. Success stories of those who rose from rags to riches through sheer business acumen are rife. Stories of failure and destitution among the Kikuyus are rarely shared. This gives the false impression that a Kikuyu person’s business acumen is genetic. This cannot be further from the truth. There are many Kikuyus (such as yours truly) who ventured into business, failed miserably, and scampered back to employment with their tails between their legs.

Language
People often say that whenever two Kikuyus meet, they switch to their mother tongue. I am often guilty of this. What I don't agree with is that we do this in order to back-bite those who don't understand the language. Besides, Kikuyus are not the only people who have and use a mother tongue among themselves.

IDPs
A lot of people, majority of them Kikuyus, were displaced after the 2007\2008 post-election violence. I got to visit some camps in the rift valley where they were being sheltered. It was heart breaking to hear of how they had lost everything. This was despite the fact that we were (and still are) under a Kikuyu President. These people were expected to be perfectly comfortable in their tents just because one of their sons was in power. “It was all worth the bloodshed and sacrifice”, they were told.

I was then with a project that was assisting women with survival kits that contained among other things, baby clothes and sanitary items. We went back for evaluation and talked with some of the men. Being the only Kikuyu in the group, I discussed with the men about what they had gone through.

Many of these men had been business people and farmers who were doing quite well before the violence. They lost everything. Their houses and businesses were razed to the ground. Some witnessed their relatives being killed and women raped. The small group we were interviewing had only managed to escape with their lives. We asked them what they would like us to bring them if we got some more funding. “Under wear”, they answered. It was really heart wrenching to see this group of former hardworking tycoons who did not own even a single pair of under wear.

Of Rich Widows and Short Lived Tycoons
Blame it on the stereotypes (which I have condemned here recently) but people are advised to give women from Kabete (where I come from) a wide berth. The news is awash with women who get their rich husbands killed so as to inherit their property. Everybody conveniently forgets to highlight the myriad Kikuyu women who are by their husbands’ side as they amass wealth, bring up their children, and happily grow old together.

P.S. For the record, all the Kikuyu-bashing notwithstanding, I have no apologies being a Kikuyu

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